The Boomer Woman’s Podcast, episode 262
Rediscovering Intimacy After 60 with Chloe Mascord
Many of us grew up believing that good women didn’t talk about sex.
We certainly didn’t talk about pleasure.
In this Revisit, Chloe Mascord gently challenges many of the beliefs our generation inherited—not by telling us we’re wrong, but by inviting us to become curious instead.
Our conversation moves well beyond the mechanics of sex into something much more important: emotional connection, communication, body confidence, changing desire, menopause, long-term relationships, and the simple acts of touch that often matter most.
Whether you’re happily partnered, newly dating, widowed, divorced, or simply curious about this often-overlooked part of healthy aging, this conversation offers reassurance rather than judgment.
Among the topics we explore:
- what “performative intimacy” really means
- why desire changes over time
- communication habits that quietly damage relationships
- why curiosity keeps long-term love alive
- body confidence after 60
- menopause, discomfort and painful sex
- why intimacy isn’t the same as intercourse
- helping partners talk about changing bodies and changing desire
- why so many women fake pleasure—and why honesty creates better intimacy
- giving ourselves grace after generations of silence around sexuality
Perhaps the biggest takeaway?
It is never too late to learn something new about yourself—or about the person you’ve loved for decades.
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Agnes - in conversation with Chloe Mascord
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About the guest: Chloe Mascord
At the time this conversation was recorded, Chloe Mascord is an internationally certified Intimacy Expert, speaker, and founder of Honey-ed, where she is on a mission to help women stop settling for performative intimacy and embrace real, authentic pleasure. As the host of the Honey-ed: Intimacy Made Easy podcast, Chloe provides bite-sized, actionable intimacy tips for time-poor women, showing them how to reclaim their pleasure and build thriving relationships.
Chloe’s expertise is grounded in Somatic Sex Coaching, Feminine Sexuality, the Art of Love Making, Conscious Kink, Lingam and Yoni Worship, Women’s Circle Facilitation, and Holistic Nutrition Coaching. Drawing on years of personal and professional experience, she’s guided over 100 women in transforming their intimacy.
A few years ago, Chloe found herself in a place many of her clients are familiar with—low libido, constant fatigue, and struggling to balance life and business. Despite being an intimacy coach, she was far from experiencing the sex life she desired and even found herself faking orgasms to avoid difficult conversations.
This personal turning point led Chloe to the realization that life is too short to fake pleasure, in and out of the bedroom. Today, she uses this powerful lesson to guide women from frustration and performative sex to authentic connection and thriving intimacy. Through proven techniques, Chloe shows women how to transform their intimate lives in less than 15 minutes a week—without burning out or compromising their well-being.
Since we recorded this conversation, Chloe has taken her career in a different direction. I’m grateful for the wisdom she shared here, and I believe these ideas continue to help women navigate intimacy and relationships later in life.
Resources mentioned during this conversation:
Chloe mentions Simon Sinek on Listening
Agnes mentions The Pottery Scene from ‘Ghost‘
Continue your journey…
- If you’re navigating menopause, grief and reinvention: Teri M Brown
- If you’re exploring healthy relationships and emotional wellbeing: Wendy O’Connor
- If you’re thinking about creating the life you truly want after 60: Gila Melamed
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